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Common
Disorders |
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At present you will find the
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What causes anxiety? |
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Mild anxiety is vague and
unsettling, but severe anxiety can be extremely debilitating.
Anxiety is often triggered by stress in our lives. some are more
vulnerable to anxiety, but even those who become anxious easily can learn
to manage it well. We also make ourselves anxious with 'negative
self-talk' - a habit of telling ourselves the worse will happen!
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How can I recognise
anxiety? |
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As well as feeling
apprehensive and worried, you may experience some of the following
physical symptoms:
tense muscles -
trembling - churning stomach - nausea - diarrhoea - headache - backache -
halt palpitations - numbness or pins and needles in arms, hands, or legs -
sweating/flushing. It is easy to mistake symptoms of anxiety for
physical illness and become worried that you might be suffering a heart
attack or stroke. This, of course, increases anxiety.
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How can I help my anxiety? |
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Firstly, avoiding
situations which make you anxious might help you in the short time, but
the anxiety keeps returning and has a habit of spreading to other
situations. This can lead you to avoiding things like shops, crowded
places, and so on. Instead of avoiding:
 | Learn to manage the stress in your
life. Keep an eye on pressures and deadlines. |
 | Learn a variety of relaxation
techniques. physical relaxation really does help. Ask
your counsellor or psychologist to help with techniques. |
 | Look after your physical self.
Eat healthily, get regular exercise and try to keep a regular sleep
pattern, avoiding alcohol and illegal drugs. |
 | Practice deep abdominal breathing. There
are helpful techniques to make this really effective - ask your
counsellor, psychologist, or medical practitioner. |
 | Learn to replace "negative
self-talk" with "coping self-talk". When you
catch yourself thinking something negative like "I can't do
this", try to change it to something more positive, like
"This is hard, but I can get through it". It can be helpful
to think of 'changing the tape' that runs through your
mind. You could make a list of the negative thoughts you
often have and write a list of positive, believable thoughts to
replace them. |
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If anxiety is causing you undue
stress and unhappiness, make an appointment with a counsellor, or
psychologist, or medical practitioner. It is often the case that a
course of medication, combined with psychotherapy provides the most
effective treatment.
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Stress |
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Stress is useful in small
doses, and too little can actually be bad for you - leaving you bored and
unstimulated. Sometimes the challenges of study, work,
relationships, finances, or home life overload us and we feel unable to
cope.
Our relationships, home life, work load,
financial and time pressures are stressors we often don't notice.
then a specific event such as the loss of a loved one, unemployment etc on
top of the daily stress can feel unbearable.
Stressors include: lack
of sleep - large workloads - extreme physical exercise, or none at all -
sickness or injury - moving house - employment changes or uncertainty -
living in a different culture - climatic extremes.
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How will I know I am
stressed out? |
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The effects of stress vary
between individuals and can change with age and personal
circumstances. When the demands on your energy become to great, you
may experience these symptoms of stress.
problems - lack of
concentration - exhaustion - anxiety - sadness or depression - stomach
ache, butterflies, or ulcers - digestive upsets - indecision - asthma and
skin rashes - high blood pressure - absenteeism - shortness of breath and
chest pains - headaches and migraines - social withdrawal - poor work or
study performance - hot and cold flushes.
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So what can I do? |
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Take control by
considering how balanced your lifestyle is in terms of meeting your
physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual needs. Identify the main
sources of stress and what adjustments you can make to reduce them. Do
NOT ignore the stress.
 | Increase your stress tolerance and resilience
by maintaining a healthy lifestyle with good nutrition, sleep, rest,
and exercise |
 | Avoid or limit smoking and drinking - abstain
from recreational drugs. |
 | Find out what helps you relax - e.g. sport,
meditation, reading, visiting... do that. |
 | Practice slow, deep breathing. |
 | Plan regular recreation breaks throughout the
day |
 | Build a supportive network of friends and
family |
 | Organise, prioritise, and manage your time,
breaking big goals into small steps, anticipate deadlines and
demanding times in your calendar and reduce other commitments accordingly. |
 | Have realistic and meaningful short and long
term goals. Evaluate the stressors you are prepared to tolerate in
light of these and your values. Make changes if necessary. |
 | If you are having problems, DON'T be afraid to
ask for help. What advice would you give a friend if they asked
for help with stress - can you follow your own advice? |
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Where to from here? |
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If you want help to
work through your issues relating to stress, learning strategies for
stress reduction, breath control, relaxation, or generally managing
stress make an appointment to see your psychologist or counsellor.
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The
Effects of Traumatic Events |
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A traumatic incident is any event
which has a stressful impact sufficient to overwhelm your usual coping
strategies. They are usually sudden and shocking incidents outside
the rage of ordinary human experience. Examples of traumatic events
include accidents, violent assaults, witnessing a violent incident,
suicides or suicide attempts by family members, and natural disasters such
as earthquakes and floods. There are strong emotional effects
associated with traumatic incidents which are
often described as 'normal
responses to abnormal events'. Learning
to recognise the normal emotions and reactions following an abnormal event
can help you understand and feel more at ease with these feelings.
In turn, this helps you adjust to what has happened.
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Common reactions to trauma |
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Although each person has a
unique response to an experience, there are some common reactions amongst
people caught up in a traumatic event.
 | Shock - Disbelief
at what has happened - Numbness (the event may seem unreal or like a
dream) - You may be slow to comprehend what has happened. |
 | Fears - Of
death or damage to yourself - Recurrence of the event - Personal
vulnerability (it may be difficult to admit you are vulnerable) - You
may have panicky irrational feelings - Other, apparently unrelated,
fears may appear. |
 | Anger - Outrage
at what has happened or what who 'caused it or allowed it to happen' -
Anger at the injustice and senselessness of it all - Anger at medical
personnel or police for not acting properly or quickly enough. |
 | Helplessness - Traumatic
incidents can show up our human powerlessness to prevent some things
from happening. |
 | Sadness - About
human destruction and losses of every kind - for the loss of the
belief that the world is safe and predicable. |
 | Shame - For
having been exposed as helpless, emotional, and needing other - For
perhaps not having reacted as you would have wished. |
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Effects on behaviour |
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 | Tension - You
may be more easily startled and agitated |
 | Sleep Disturbances - You
may be finding it difficult to sleep or having thoughts that prevent
sleep, e.g. replay of the incident. |
 | Dreams and Nightmares - You
may be dreaming about the incident or other frightening events. |
 | Flashback - You
may feel you are re-experiencing the event over and over. |
 | Fearfulness - You
may be frightened by reminders of the incident, e.g. the place it
happened. |
 | Intrusive memories and feelings - Your
concentration may be affected by memories, flashbacks, and feelings
about the event. You might be trying to shut these out which leads to
deadening of feelings and thoughts. |
 | Irritability - Your
mood may swing up and down. One minute you may be feeling happy
and the next minute sad or angry. |
 | Depression - You
may feel depressed about the event or past events, or guilty about how
you behaved. |
 | Social Withdrawal - You
may have a strong desire to be alone, or you may fear being alone. |
 | Physical Sensations - You
may be experiencing a range of physical sensations. These may include:
tiredness, palpitations, tremors, breathing difficulties, headaches,
tense muscles, aches and pains, loss of appetite, loss of interest in
sex, nausea, diarrhoea, constipation. |
 | Delayed effects - Any
of these effects may occur months or even years after satisfactory
adjustments if something triggers them. |
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While these symptoms
are normal, they can be very distressing for you and your
family. Your psychologist or counsellor will help you work
through the issues you have and take control of your life
again.
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Anorexia |
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What is anorexia? |
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Anorexia, short for
Anorexia Nervosa, is commonly known as the 'slimmer's disease'. It
is an eating disorder in which a person deliberately looses
weight. Anorexia often begins with worry about weight as a
reaction to the changes in the body during puberty. Excessive
dieting causes such dramatic weight loss that the person's health is
affected. The person may not feel unwell, and the often
compulsive desire to exercise to help the weight loss may be
extreme. Even though the anorexia sufferer may be extremely thin,
even skeletal, when he/she looks in the mirror they will perceive a fat
person.
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What is the outlook? |
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Anorexia seldom starts
before puberty. About half of all cases start before the age of 19,
and almost all before 45. 90% of those with anorexia are female, and
about 1 out of every 100 women developing the disorder.
A few sufferers, about 1 in a hundred, die each
year, mostly from the complications which arise from starvation.
Most recover after a period which can be a few years, and many develop
other associated problems such as depression, anxiety, and alcohol
problems.
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Signs of Anorexia |
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Early signs of Anorexia
Nervosa include:
 | concern about, and disgust with, body shape |
 | wearing concealing or baggy clothing |
 | exercising in an extreme manner |
 | refusing to eat with other people |
 | developing rituals around eating, such as
counting mouthfuls, having to use a particular plate, nibbling only
tiny portions. |
 | lying about the amount eaten, or when having
eaten |
 | shown anger when asked about dieting |
As weight lowers physical changes happen in
the body:
 | metabolism slows to conserve energy - pulse
slows, blood pressure reduces, body temperature drops. |
 | In females, menstrual periods stop - the risk
of osteoporosis rises |
 | fat, followed by muscles, is burned up,
leading to wasting of the body |
 | blood flow to the extremities reduces, making
fingers and toes blue and cold |
 | fine hair may grow on face, arms, and back. |
With dramatic weight loss, vital organs may be
affected
 | starvation of the brain - causes loss of
concentration and ability to think clearly. Depression and
irritability increase. |
 | starvation of the muscle of the heart leads to
heart failure or rhythmic changes - sudden death may occur. There may
be little warning of the problem. |
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Recovery |
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Living with anorexia can
be isolating, overwhelming, and terrifying. People with anorexia
often lose hope and belief that they can recover. It can bring shame
and sensitivity to other people's fear, prejudice, and low opinion of
them. Other may try to bully the person into eating - sometimes the
discrimination feels worse than the condition.
The process of recovering is about regaining the
hope once held for a productive, happy future - most importantly,
believing that you deserve it. Most people with anorexia have a very
low opinion of themselves. Recovery is about regaining your role as
a healthy person, rather than living your life as a sick person.
With help, you can create a vision for your life, change the old patterns,
and discover symptoms can be managed.
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The psychological
treatment of Anorexia |
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 | While there is not a specific medication for
anorexia, medication is often given for the co-problems of anorexia -
depression, anxiety, and so on. A psychologist will often
work alongside the medical practitioner to give the maximum care to a
person with anorexia. |
 | Cognitive-behavioural therapy (CBT) - the
focus of the therapy is on changing eating patterns, working through
the sufferer's unhelpful beliefs about food and, very importantly,
raising their self-esteem. The belief that you have to be thin to be
considered worthwhile is one such belief which will be addressed. |
 | Interpersonal therapy - this explores
the person's current relationships, identifying problems, and seeking
changes in the way the relationships are conducted. This is
particularly helpful when depression accompanies anorexia. |
 | Narrative therapy - the person is
encouraged to see anorexia as something outside of her/his 'real'
self. the person will be helped to fight the negative messages
anorexia gives her. The person learns to re-story, not as a
victim of social forces, but as a survivor of them - and a person who
makes choices for her/himself. |
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If you, or anyone you
know, show symptoms of a psychological problem and you would like to
make an appointment to discuss this with me, email a-lamont@xtra.co.nz,
or telephone (03) 354-1969 |
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